Life experiences that are better to know early: 1. Learn to read people. A guy with strong arms may not have built them through workouts. Every growth in life starts with feeling like an idiot. Every time you find yourself in trouble starts with thinking someone else is an idiot. 3. Cohabitation before marriage is essential; it allows you to understand a person's habits, diet, and physical condition more comprehensively. 4. Read more books; if you think there are no books to follow, then you really haven't read enough. 5. When your studies, work, and life are not going smoothly, remember not to make love your everything. 6. As long as you accept anything, you won't suffer; if you don't accept it, you will keep suffering. Learn to accept the unchangeable facts. 7. It's okay to cry after a breakup, but don't let your heart die. Remember, all exes in this world are paving the way for true love. 8. Use knowledge to earn money as soon as possible; money isn't vulgar; laziness is vulgar. Pretend not to care about money, and you will truly have no money. 9. The biggest illusion in life is thinking there’s plenty of time; some people and things may vanish with a casual mention of 'another day,' and an ordinary goodbye can last a lifetime. 10. When you feel tired from scrolling videos, just tap the screen a few times; you'll discover different gains. 11. Changing yourself is painful, but once you take the first step, you'll enjoy the feeling of being on the road. 12. Luck is when opportunity collides with your efforts, but you must first work hard; otherwise, when the opportunity comes, you can only watch. 13. Don’t be greedy for cheap deals; there’s no such thing as a free lunch. Before wanting anything, ask yourself if you can afford the corresponding price. 14. Those who have interests and can continuously optimize are kings; those who can monetize their interests have often outpaced most who don’t even know their interests. 15. Never jump to conclusions; think more. What you see may not be the truth and could be a setup by others. 16. Knowing many principles is not as valuable as experiencing losses yourself; a solid experience is the real lesson. 17. Humility and low profile, knowing how to show weakness is a survival wisdom and a skill to achieve success. 18. Don’t hesitate because of fear; sometimes moving forward is the best way to eliminate fear. 19. Often take the initiative to suffer losses; in the long run, temporary concessions may actually benefit you. When traveling with a group of twenty or so, pay attention to the person behind you; if they are tying their shoes, wait a moment; it won't take long but will warm someone's heart. 21. Don’t be afraid of making mistakes; making mistakes is not scary. Errors are opportunities to quickly learn about your weaknesses; in fact, everyone grows quickly through mistakes. 22. No matter when, reading is definitely the fastest and lowest-cost way to improve yourself. 23. Trade with two close friends; you don’t need many friends, just a couple of close ones will do. 24. Remember, you have the right to give up; today’s societal atmosphere is too intense; we are all human and will get tired. Don’t crush yourself; giving up is not shameful; you need to give yourself a chance to breathe and start over. 25. At a drinking party, either abstain completely or drink to your heart's content; if you didn't get completely drunk the first time, you’ll be pulled into drinking at the next gathering, and you won’t be able to refuse. 26. Set just one alarm on your phone; that way, you won’t have a sense of false hope. If you snooze the first alarm, you’ll be late today. 27. When interacting with others, first think about whether you can provide the value they need. 28. Choosing is really more important than effort; when making choices, don’t always feel inadequate; think about how you can improve a bit; a small change in thinking can lead to a huge change in your world. 29. When feeling nervous, go to the bathroom; it can relieve tense emotions and clear your mind on what to do next. 30. Make friends with result-oriented people; they are usually sensitive, gentle, kind, and have particularly good fortune, and being with them will also improve your luck.